"One thing I can observe is that we never know how things are going to go. Things are not linear. Looking at where our guy was at four, we could not have predicted were our guy would be at 14. We could not even have predicted roughly what things he would be best at. Here is a guy who was not speaking in anything near full sentences until age eight and at age 14 his French teacher tells me he is one of two or three kids in the class who really "get it" and there is nothing he likes better than talking with a bunch of his friends on Skype.If only *I* knew what approach I was taking. Something akin to Dory in Finding Nemo:
Mind you, what we might consider fairly simple questions like "Have you done your homework?" can be very difficult. Go figure. There is no point trying to predict other than to predict that, like everyone, with love and encouragement, our kids will grow.
I like your blog. The approach you are taking, seems to be the one that takes the people I've seen on this journey the furthest."
"Just keep swimming, just keep swimming, just keep swimming, swimming swimming!"
Yup, that the approach I meant. In particular, I notice Dory's smile.
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